In recent years, there seems to be a change in how sexuality is communicated. It is being discussed more openly. However, there are still many taboos and myths regarding stimulating the G spot in men, also called the H spot or P spot.
Machismo, prevailing in society for centuries, has prevented men from discovering the pleasure generated in this area. The fear of losing “masculinity” or considering the act as “unhygienic” continue hindering their enjoyment.
Even many still doubt the existence of this erogenous region and refuse to think that it can be stimulated as a couple without this being synonymous with diverting their sexuality. However, some put prejudices aside and become interested in the subject.
What should we know about stimulating the G spot in men? How to do it for a satisfactory experience? We know both men and women want to resolve these questions, so we share the most critical aspects below.
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Is there a G-spot in a man?
Some people are skeptical about the existence of the G-spot in men, also called the H-spot or P-spot (to differentiate it from women). At the same time, others associate it with the prostate gland or prostate.
The prostate is a walnut-shaped organ part of the male reproductive system. Its primary function is to help produce semen below the bladder, almost in front of the rectum.
On the other hand, this gland tends to grow with age and can suffer from various health problems, such as prostatitis, an enlarged prostate, and even cancer. G-spot scanning in men could help detect abnormalities; in this sense, it is considered a preventive measure.
G-spot in man: where is it located?
Apart from the aforementioned reproductive functions, the H point or P point is also an erogenous zone, which can be stimulated to produce pleasure.
But, to enjoy sexual fullness as a couple, it is convenient that you previously know in which region the G-spot is located in the man. For obvious reasons, there are significant anatomical differences if we compare it with that of women.
Specifically, the male G-spot is located inside the rectum, about 5 centimeters from the entrance hole and on the wall that faces the front. It is an area with many nerve endings, making it susceptible.
How to stimulate the G spot in men?
The subject of G-spot stimulation in men can cause many doubts. While some women fear that their partners will refuse to explore this area, others fear that they will cause harm due to lack of experience.
First, speaking confidently is ideal since both must agree to do so. As women, it is essential to let them know that the situation is entirely normal and does not affect masculinity.
Of course, it is best to respect the sexual decisions of the other because it is useless to force the situation. And if he decides to be stimulated at the G-spot, it’s good to know how to achieve this.
First step: find the G spot on your man
The G-spot can be accessed through the anus. Once the sphincter is crossed, the rectum is reached. A few centimeters deep in this area, it is possible to feel a bulge: the prostate.
The finger should be inserted gently. If you’re not used to it, try the tiniest (pinky) first, then the most significant (medium). You will feel like a small “nut” with a slightly rough texture.
Advice
- You can stimulate the man’s G-spot by gently moving your finger and trying to imitate the “come here” gesture. Rub at different rhythms until you find the most exciting for him.
Lubricant
Men, like women, need to relax the anal sphincter to facilitate penetration. For this reason, before inserting the finger, it is essential to lubricate it well with a suitable product. Lubricants are used to enhance pleasure and reduce pain during sexual intercourse.
Advice
- Move your finger around her anus and apply the lubricant with a gentle massage for further arousal.
Oral sex
Practicing oral sex before reaching the G-spot in a man is an excellent way to put him in a state of relaxation and tranquility. That way, while he enjoys the pleasure generated in front, she can gently touch the back.
Advice
- Try to gently massage the perineum, the part of the skin between the anus and the testicles. This area is susceptible, and you can prepare your partner before stimulating the G-spot.
Sex toys
Many sex toys can help enhance the experience by stimulating the G-spot in a man, making orgasms more pleasurable and ejaculation more excellent. The idea is to start incorporating them when he feels more comfortable and prepared.
Some fun options are:
- Anal spheres.
- Anal plugs.
- Anal stimulator.
- Prostate massagers.
Other erogenous zones in men
There are other erogenous zones that you can also stimulate, either before, during, or after reaching the G-spot in men. These are:
- Mouth and lips: you can brush them with yours, pass your fingers, and introduce them for him to suck on.
- Penis: a whole sensitive area, mainly on the head or glans, as well as the foreskin (when not circumcised).
- Scrotum is that bag of skin that surrounds the testicles; it is susceptible if you touch it gently.
- Crotch: you can caress, getting closer to his member, and then move away a little.
- Neck: Besides kissing and licking it, you can play with some ice and see how it bristles.
Enjoy the man’s G-spot
Except in cases where the person has undergone a radical prostatectomy, it is always possible to enjoy stimulating the G-spot in a man. But remember that it is also essential for them to consult if they feel comfortable or do not like something.
For this reason, once you enter this erogenous zone, it is good to ask, “Do you like it here?” or “How are you feeling?” Moans of happiness and their expressions can serve as an indicator. Enjoy it!